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May 13, 2008

Helping Burma Cyclone Victims

This is from Jennifer Dunbar, our Karen refugee local P.E.A.C.E. coordinator on how to help. Myanmar is the home country of the Karen.

Several people have asked if there are ways to help the cyclone victims in Burma.  I spoke to World Relief, and they recommend donating through Gospel for Asia if people are interested.  This is a mission which has been in Burma for years.  Their Bible school in Rangoon (Yangon) is housing many cyclone victims.  Their website is www.gfa.org.  They have information about the cyclone and ways to help.

May 08, 2008

Relevance Conference (Eagle Brook) - Session Three

“Recapture Your Courage” - Bob Merritt

  • Leaders battle fear and insecurities, as does everyone on the planet.
  • “I have battled fear and insecurity all my life. And reaching goals doesn’t free me of fear. It only means the expectations are now higher.”
  • The difference isn’t fear but the willingness to jump.
  • Source of Fear: People. Abraham afraid of Egyptian officials. Elijah afraid of Jezebel. Peter afraid of servant girl. David afraid of Saul.
  • Hire staff very carefully.
  • “Churches attract a lot of weirdos. I’m not talking about the hurting... I'm talking about people who are just nutty and no amount of prayer will change them. ...They’re omnipresent... They’ll pull you off mission.” Have to set boundaries to survive them.
  • Some people think their purpose in life is to straighten you out.
  • Source of Fear: The demands of this job. The expectation for excellence keeps going up  (not mean perfection).
  • We’re competing with home entertainment centers, kids sports, cabins, golf... Weekend services have to be excellent.
  • All other ministries take their cue form the worship service.
  • Two or three mediocre weekends in a row can take weeks to overcome so invitors feel comfortable again.
  • Areas for immediate improvement: (1) Lengthy or awkward transitions...musicians rehearse transitions; (2) Announcements: long, boring announcements will kill a service...can’t have nervous or choppy announcements...written out, rehearsed and never more than three minutes or three in total...announcer has to make a warm connection with the congregation; (3) Music: Do whatever it takes to get the right people...put people on the stage for the benefit of the people out there, not the person on the stage; (4) Message: Very few people decide to follow Christ and get life transformed through the music, it happens through proclamation of the word
  • Making messages better: (1) Make prep first priority of the week; (2) Involve your team - ask for input; (3) Insist on story and humor every week - people love to laugh; (4) Labor over every phrase; (5) Read constantly; (6) Share the teaching load.
  • Sweat the details. If senior leaders don’t hold the line on excellence, it has a trickle down effect.
  • Start with what’s broken and needs attention. What’s a dysfunction or barrier?
  • Value incremental change. Nothing good happen overnight. No major breakthroughs or silver bullets. There is no one great program. It’s the small things every day that leads to the big things.

Relevance Conference (Eagle Brook) - Session Two

"Refill Your Tank" - Amy Anderson

  • 3 Basic Project Models: (1) from scratch; (2) hamburger helper; (3) hot pockets
  • Examples of each (you had to be there): All very good.
  • Creative Process: (1) Message Plan from Bob (6 - 9 months); (2) Prioritize (not all series are created equal; inreach and outreach); (3) Pass the info on; (4) Creative Team looks at details and messages to after best opportunities; (5) Produce the project (if short term, use “hot pockets” but weeks out can do from scratch or hamburger helper).
  • Sometimes you have to stop doing some things to focus on the best opportunities. Example: When Eagle Brook stopped doing different styles of services this last year to focus and launch new campus.

Politics and Church Leaders

If you want to get my take on politics and the church, take a look at the "Categories" section on the right side of this page and link on "Politics." Here are some insights from John Ortberg (a summary of his article follows):

Talking Religion and Politics without Getting Co-opted
by John Ortberg

Anybody but me notice that this is an election year?

...Here's the problem: politics is an important sphere of human activity, and as such God is keenly interested in it. It was the Dutch theologian and politician (why don't we have more of those?) Abraham Kuyper who famously said, "There is not one inch of creation about which Jesus Christ does not say: 'This is mine!'"

However, as soon as human beings (including church leaders) start assuming they are in a position to pronounce God's political leanings, things get a little dicey.

In Abraham Lincoln's Second Inaugural Address, which remains the high water mark in presidential theological reflection, he notes that "Both (the North and the South) read the same Bible, and pray to the same God; and each invokes His aid against the other." So maybe a way to place politics in its proper context is with a little thought experiment.

Imagine that we elected all the right people to all the right offices. President, Congress, governors, right down to the school board, city council members, and dog catcher (which, by the way, does anyone still get to vote for?) Let's imagine that all of these ideal office holders instituted all the right policies. Every piece of legislation—from zoning laws, to tax codes, to immigration policy, to crime bills—is just exactly the way you know it ought to be.

Would that usher in perfection?

...no human system has the ability to change the human heart. Not even democracy, or capitalism, or  post-modern-emergent-ancient-future-missionalism. T.S. Elliot summed up our quandary brilliantly: "We want a system of order so perfect that we do not have to be good."

...no human system has the ability to change the human heart. Not even democracy, or capitalism, or  post-modern - emergent - ancient - future - missionalism. T.S. Elliot summed up our quandary brilliantly: "We want a system of order so perfect that we do not have to be good."

Systems are important but they're also complicated. Historian Mark Noll notes that evangelicals often fail to add value in politics because we like simplicity: good vs. evil; right vs. wrong. Political and economic arrangements are full of complexity and nuance. Well-intended legislation may lead to poor results. When we condition people to think that every bill is a battle between the forces of righteousness versus the minions of darkness, we do not serve the process well. But we specialize in polarizing. No parachurch organization with a political agenda ever sent out a fund-raising letter noting that an upcoming bill was "likely to do 40 percent more good than harm."

We ought to be engaged in the political process. ...We should do it in a way that is civil and respectful and redemptive. ...But we should also remember that the church is not called to be one more political interest group.

The human race needs an administration of another kind. There is one possibility. Someone needs to be in a position to say: "The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe the Good News." Scholars like N.T. Wright remind us that these words were politically loaded. They deliberately echo or parody the claims of Rome—that Caesar was Savior, that his kingdom was Good News.

The Gospel of the early church was, among other things, a deliberate in-your-face to the empire. Pretty cheeky when you think that the church had a few thousand ragged cohorts and the Empire ruled sixty-five million hearts. It was pretty clear which horse to bet on. But here we are, two thousand years later, and we give our children names like Peter, Paul, and Mary; and we call our dogs Caesar and Nero.

These gospel words of the early church were deliberately politically loaded. But they were not to be co-opted. They are to stand above every human party and candidate and political platform. The church historically has not done well when it gets too closely associated with empires. The gospel words must transcend higher to go deeper...

There's more if you link, but these are some good thoughts in the middle of this political season.

Relevance Conference (Eagle Brook) - Session One

About ten of us, staff and leaders, are at Eagle Brook for their one-day Relevance conference. Great opening sketch (very funny) and worship music.

Bob Merritt - "Recapture Your Mission"

  • In ministry, sometimes feels like we’re standing in the middle of a swamp, wondering if it’s really
  • With a little bit of faith and a little bit of action, miracles still happen. (Matt. 17:6 - Mustard seed faith.)
  • Have to take a tiny step of faith... Story about losing keys in a swamp, praying and taking a step of faith to look...
  • There are times when the clarity you need will only come through prayer and fasting.
  • God speaks to leaders in ways different from everyone else...lots of responsibility and sometimes don’t want it.
  • Story: Recapturing their mission at Eagle Brook...Car dealer story...antenna was up for real people with real needs...
  • Learning #1: Leadership 101 - What’s the problem? Am I willing to own up? How will I involve key leaders? What is the strategic plan to address the problem?
  • Learning #2: People love a compelling cause. People want to be stirred and hate to be bored.
  • Learning #3: Alignment is powerful. Focus the whole congregation in every way possible.
  • Learning #4: Risk is required. No guarantee it would work. You know it’s a God-sized risk if failure will hurt badly.
  • What if they had ignored the problem of stagnant growth and done business as usual?

May 07, 2008

A Five Star Local P.E.A.C.E. Opportunity

Resident reviewer Bill Markham submitted this review of his small group's experience at Feed My Starving Children:

I would highly recommend a night at Feed My Starving Children (990 Lone Oak Road, Suite 160  Eagan, MN 55121; 651-379-2775) to any individual or small group, especially those with young children (your four year old will remain engaged in a meaningful activity for two hours). 

Our group, which consisted of 18 adults and 14 children (including one visiting child!) arrived at 6:30 p.m. on a Friday night (IMPORTANT NOTE:  If you want to do this activity, call the Eagan number on the website now. Sometimes there is a wait of a few weeks for large groups.) The evening began in a large room where we had a very short orientation and a DVD with short stories about the operation. 

Whoever designed this ministry is a genius.  Kids as young as five years old worked alongside other children and adults. The team on that Friday night created 12,500 bags of food in one hour. The operating area is set up with 12 work stations and each work station has five or six people.  Each person has a specific job (load rice, chicken, soy, etc., hang the bags, seal the bags, pack the boxes, etc).  Other adults worked in the warehouse refilling food bins and weighing and placing boxes on pallets. 

Laughter and cheering filled the room as the event turned into a little bit of a competition to see how many boxes we could fill.  At the end of our time, we all ate a sample of the food, and had a short debrief.  There was also an opportunity to pray over the boxed food that is going to starving children.  There was very little solicitation of funds from the staff, although they did point out where to make donations, and they also had hats and shirts for sale with the ministry logo. 

We walked out at 8:30 pm and then went to a nearby Culver’s for burgers and ice cream...a guilt ridden meal. :-)  This is a brilliantly designed ministry that will make you feel like you really contributed to an important cause.

May 06, 2008

Hudson Campus Q & A

In spite of the absolutely beautiful weather on Sunday, 50 plus from the Hudson campus came out to Faith Community Church in Hudson to hear from me about some of the changes coming to the Hudson campus. June 15 is the big date for our move to the new Hudson 12 cinema. It's also our target date to bring in an "understudy" for Pastor Bob and to add a part-time Worship Leader to our staff for the Hudson campus.

Hudson's attendance, after seven months, is averaging about the same Five Oaks averaged after seven years into it's life! Normally summer is a lower attendance period, but the move, the advertising we'll do for the move and the dedication of the congregation there may buck that trend.

After I talked about some of the changes, there were lots of good questions like...

  • "Is the Hudson campus here to stay?" (I certainly hope so and we're planning on it and investing in it.)
  • "Are we on track for 10 campuses in 10 years?" (We're still pursuing that dream, and the reality of what it will take is causing ripples in my priorities for the future. One of the major keys is leadership development. We've learned a lot and we're still learning, but I'm hoping we can unveil a comprehensive plan before too long.)
  • "Why don't we plan an event in Hudson to invite the Woodbury campus to?" (I forgot to mention that there's talk of Hudson sponsoring a men's golfing event. I really hope that happens. But the invitation usually goes the other direction because of sheer size and the opportunities afforded by the building in Woodbury.)
  • "Can you come and preach here more often in person?" (Actually, one of our learnings is that we need to elevate the role of Campus Pastor more than we have. So coming there more often runs counter to that. And we've got some plans for increasing in-person preaching that will become more evident in the summer. I would like to be there more often when I'm not preaching, because I feel like I'm missing a lot of the fun. But with Dana and Tim in the Woodbury Campus pastor role in addition to all their other duties, asking them to teach more seems a bit too much.)

This meeting also gave me a good chance to talk about our ministry philosophy, namely, our focused approached to ministry through a small groups strategy. We just don't offer a lot of programs because we don't want them competing with small groups or stretching us so thin that we don't do anything well. We do, however, have some programs and events to supplement small groups, so I fully expect our campuses to develop campus-specific programs and events. But we're pretty picky about programs and remain committed to streamlined programing in all campuses.

I'm very excited about the changes in Hudson for the summer. Pray for us to be able to leverage our move to bring more lives to Christ.

May 05, 2008

Karen

Dscf3046_2 Dscf3045Great weekend with the Karen at both campuses. The meal they made for us on Saturday night was delicious. The crowd was huge. Those of us at the end of the line missed the noodles, rice, the round sausage things and the pancake-like things (okay, so I'm not up to speed on Karen cuisine). But never fear, there's always kids around who don't eat all their food and I'm not too picky...so I got to taste it all. The sausage I almost missed was fabulous and very garlicy. Stayed with me all night, according to Lois...but it was worth it.

Pray for the Karen's home country (Myanmar, formerly Burma), which has been hit by a cyclone. Thousands are feared dead. Did you know the latest Rambo installment takes place in Myanmar? I haven't seen it, but that's what I've been told.

Don't forget about the informational meeting on Tuesday night this week at the Woodbury campus. Find out how you or your small group can help Karen refugees settle in.

Torment or Death

"Christ says, 1Give me All. I don’t want so much of your time and so much of your money and so much of your work: I want You. I have not come to torment your natural self, but to kill it. No half-measures are any good. I don’t want to cut off a branch here and a branch there. I want to have the whole tree down. I don’t want to drill the tooth, or crown it, or stop it, but to have it out. Hand over the whole natural self, all the desires which you think innocent as well as the ones you think wicked- the whole outfit. I will give you a new self instead. In fact, I will give you Myself: my own will shall become yours.'" (C.S. Lewis)

May 02, 2008

First Impressions Quarterly Report - Woodbury

In addition to the comments we receive on first impression cards we send to first-time guests, we also ask for a rating on three questions. Here's how we did in the first quarter of 2008 on all cards that were returned. The numbers in parenthesis are from the previous quarters.

  • I felt welcome when I visited Five Oaks Church (on a 5-point scale, 5 = agree strongly): 4.58 (4.27; 4.34)
  • I felt that my child(ren) was/were well taken care of during our visit: 4.70 (4.57; 4.71)
  • How likely is it that you would recommend Five Oaks to a friend or colleague? (on a scale of 0=not likely at all, 5=Neutral, 10=Extremely Likely) - 8.08 (8.18; 8.0)

Great scores all around. Thank you for reaching out to our guests.

First Impressions Quarterly Report - Hudson

In addition to the comments we receive on first impression cards we send to first-time guests, we also ask for a rating on three questions. Here's how we did in the first quarter of 2008 on all cards that were returned. The numbers in parenthesis are from the previous quarters.

  • I felt welcome when I visited Five Oaks Church (on a 5-point scale, 5 = agree strongly): 4.63 (4.77)
  • I felt that my child(ren) was/were well taken care of during our visit: 5.00 (4.58)
  • How likely is it that you would recommend Five Oaks to a friend or colleague? (on a scale of 0=not likely at all, 5=Neutral, 10=Extremely Likely) - 8.13 (8.51)

Look at the Children's ministry score! Great work to all. Thank you for reaching out to our guests.

May 01, 2008

Mo

You don't realize how important momentum is until you lose it. I've written a lot about our loss of the mighty mo last year, and at the congregational meeting a couple of weeks ago I shared how we have regained it...spiritually, emotionally, numerically, etc.

Here's how it works: Momentum leads to Mobilization leads to Mission. You lose momentum, it effects the mission. That's not to say that God needs our momentum. God does his work and accomplishes his purposes...period. But our participation and joy is increased when we're in his stream. Losing mo is like sitting on the shore while watching the white water rafters shoot by, laughing (and screaming in fear) down the rapids. I prefer to be in the raft on the rapids.

April 30, 2008

Hudson Campus Q & A

Hudson folks and anyone interested in an update on our Hudson campus, come for pizza with the pastors next week after the service. We'll be going over to Faith Community Church for pizza. I'll be doing a presentation similar to the one I did at the congregational meeting and then taking questions. We've got some great plans for Hudson and we're learning more and more every day about what it means to be a multisite church.

April 29, 2008

Input

Dscf3028 Dscf3033 Dscf3034 Dscf3035 One of the first things we did on our strategic planning retreat a couple of weeks ago was process tons of input. We looked for patterns in strengths, things people want to see happen at Five Oaks, opportunities, etc. Here were the top four areas of needed improvement:

  • Volunteers: More volunteers and deeper commitments to the ministry.
  • Small Groups: Better resourcing of groups and leaders.
  • Campus Events: More campus events like the Coffee House.
  • Music: Same base, but add more variety.

Here are some of the initiatives we're planning for next year:

  • Leadership Community: A gathering for all Five Oaks leaders that will be fast-paced, fun, informative, inspiring and instructive on the second Saturday (9:00 - 10:30 a.m.) in September, November, January and March. Second Saturday in May will be the all-volunteer appreciation brunch. Leadership Community is about equipping leaders and raising commitment.
  • Curriculum Options: Offer very specific, targeted options for small groups to use when they opt out of Group Life for a few weeks to focus on a need in their group (e.g., parenting, marriage, in-depth Bible study).
  • Equipping Seminars: More Sunday morning seminars at the Woodbury campus (with small group options for Saturday nighters and Hudson.
  • Campus Events: Four major connection events for campuses.
  • Variety in Music: Find ways to offer more variety, including hymns led by the piano, concerts, pre- and post- service music by the band, etc.

First Impressions Weekly Update

The lastest from the cards we send first-time attenders:

Hudson

  • Nice music – worship time a little short. Good message – not sure if we like not having pastor not physically in building – trying to keep an open mind.

Building in Use

Dscf3036Last week, New Life Academy used our building for their retreat day. I think it was their teens only. Hundreds. It was fun having them around. Our building being put to good use by another community group.

Volunteer Appreciation Brunch

Dsc_1601 Dsc_1614 Dsc_1627 Dsc_1679 Dsc_1700Great event a couple of weekends ago. We can't do what we do without all the people who serve in ministry here at Five Oaks. This was about celebration, inspiration and fun. I think we accomplished them all. Our Staff Leadership Team came up with this top ten list for the occasion. In case you missed it, here it is:

Top 10 Signs You’re Burning Out as a Five Oaks Volunteer

10.  Your children begin to weep when you tell them you need to “run up to church for a few minutes.”
9.  The U.S. Postal service now forwards all your mail to your church mailbox.
8. You greet people at your front door with a hand shake and “welcome to Five Oaks church.”
7. You call up the Woodbury Bulletin newspaper and tell them the correct term is Woodbury worship program, the school gym is the CLC, and the Bird sanctuary is the bird worship center
6.  You think the middle east peace plan was drawn up by Rick Warren.
5.  Four Words:  Five Oaks Business Cards.
4.  You’ve been to church every weekend this year, but still haven’t made it into the worship service.
3.  You introduce yourself as, “Anita Manning – Bin Babe”.
2.  You’ve included Intelligent Lights in your home décor plan.
1.  You think fluorescent reflective tape would be a nice addition to a sport coat.

April 28, 2008

Renovating vs. Redocorating

Bath1 Bath2 Bath3 Bath4Here are some pics from the bathrooms I mentioned in my message this week. The first one is bowed ceiling. The second and third show the same general area, with the deteriorated floor in view in the third. Tile going up today. Yahoo!

April 16, 2008

Cubano (Part 2)

Bread I forgot to give a Cubano update...We had a half day in Miami before returning home at the end of Spring break. We walked by the water and ate a famous Cuban restaurant on Calle Ocho. On the way to the airport we stopped at a Cuban grocery store and bought two Cuban bread loaves to take home. The guy wrapped them up for us really tight and we carried them on the plane. Sunday morning we ate them with cafe con leche (Henry Michael was lucky enough to be home and to join Lois, my mom and me in eating this delicacy you just can't buy anywhere in MN). But on Monday I look the last piece (warmed up and buttered) to Swede Hallow and dipped it into my Cubano. I'd only dreamt of that day... It was awesome!

April 15, 2008

Staff Retreat

Dscf3014 Dscf3017Dscf3019_2 Our Staff Leadership Team is in WI on our annual retreat. This is our culmination of lots of input from about people in the congregation and the beginnings of developing our next ministry year's strategic ministry plan. We go from Sunday evening until Wednesday noon. Monday started with a prayer time. Then we looked at all the input from the SWOT analysis groups and the "I love Five Oaks but I wish we..." exercises. Primarily, we looked for patterns and found several.

In the afternoon we developed what I'm calling a momentum plan for this next ministry year. We believe this plan will address many of the issues brought up in the input sessions. It all came together amazingly fast, primarily because we've been talking and processing and thinking on this now for a couple of months.

The evening included a walk, dinner, cards (golf...we have a nickname for Deb Johnson...Negative Deb for her low scores) and a movie ("Once" on Monday night and "Dan in Real Life" on Sunday). So far very productive and lots of fun and laughter.

April 14, 2008

Viennese Ball

N59505394_34426551_1044 N59505394_34426554_1959 N59505394_34426565_5421 N59505394_34426555_2273_2What a great event. UW Eau Claire puts this on every year. Food, music and dancing. We waltzed, did a little swing dancing and one polka. (No, we don't really know how to do those, but we can imitate and have fun.) An orchestra on one side of the huge dance floor and a big band on the other provided the music at one of the venues. Jazz, recitals, polka band and many other things going on all evening. Got home at 1:35am but felt very fresh for Sunday. I'm already looking forward to next year. We just have to get some dance lessons!

April 11, 2008

Salsa

No, not the stuff you eat with chips...the dance. Lois and I did a short lesson while on vacation last week and we got it down...okay, we needs loads of practice. But we're hoping we'll get it at the Viennese Ball at UW Eau Claire this weekend. Lots of music venues and dancing. We're making a mad dash out of the service on Saturday and headed up there to join Henry Michael, the Brueggens and others for this huge annual event. Our first. And I'm told there's not much chance of them playing Salsa music. We should have learn to Polka.

I've seen that somewhere before

I'm not saying it's a bad picture of Larry in that last post, but he's little stiff. So am I. But there's something about that look on his face that reminds me of something...Oh yeah. Larry2_4

Cuba

Dscf2908_3 Dscf2930_3 If you click on the first picture and make it bigger you'll see the south west mountains of Cuba. I took the picture from our cruise ship. Very relaxing trip we took with Larry (Lois' brother) and Pam. The weather was only a little better than what we're experiencing today (80's and sunny every day).

April 09, 2008

Five Oaks Website Stats

Here are the March stats:

  • 3,341 visits (up from 3,167 visits in February)
  • 13,076 pages were visited
  • Averaged 107 visits per day
  • March 22 (day before Easter) was the highest traffic day with 197 hits
  • March 13 was the lowest traffic day with 55 hits
  • Sundays were the busiest days
  • 15 hits were linked in from henrywilliams.typepad.com
  • 30 hits were linked in from the City of Woodbury
  • 13 hits were from doUwant2change.com

April 08, 2008

First Impressions Weekly Update

Here's the latest card we got back from the first-time guest feedback card:

Woodbury

  • We felt welcomed visiting Five Oaks. We love the children’s ministry and were very impressed with how well they were taken care of. We enjoyed the service and have visited a couple of times now. One comment I have is that both my husband and I have been left longing for more worship time. We were surprised to see how much the worship leader “performs” a song every week vs. just spending more time drawing the congregation into actively participating in worship. The music is great and we were wishing we could’ve spent more time worshipping to it.

April 07, 2008

First Impressions Weekly Update

From the cards we send first-time attenders:

Hudson

  • I enjoyed the service/music/worship and felt very welcome and comfortable. Thank you. Thank you also for your prayers.

Woodbury

  • Enjoyed your services and will be back with more people, I hope. Thank you.

April 04, 2008

I want to be that guy or that church

Have you ever asked someone about how they got well grounded in excited about their faith? Where were they inspired and where did they learn to be a spiritual leader? When I ask people that question, they often point back to a youth pastor or campus ministry or a parachurch ministry like Bible Study Fellowship. One of my dreams is that more and more people answer, "At Five Oaks," or, "My friend Henry, took some time to help mentor me in my faith." I want to be that church or that guy people refer to because that's what the church is to be about...helping people bring Christ to everyday life. That happens best one person at a time. People who multiply themselves in others.

That's why I'm launching the Discipleship Essentials for Men next month. The women have a mentoring program and pretty intensive Bible study on Wednesday mornings and Tuesday nights. These ministries supplement the small group experience and study. The Discipleship Essentials initiative is a great chance for men to grow deeper in their faith.

Speaking of men growing deeper, BSF will study Moses all of next year, and Mark Porter (Five Oaks member and BSF's leader in Woodbury) says that this one is the favorite of most men who do BSF. It's about being a leader and man of God. That's another special challenge that would be worth taking on, guys.

April 03, 2008

Discipleship Essentials for Men

Hey, Five Oaks men. With the Men's Ministry I'll be launching an exciting initiative for men to grow deeper in their faith. It begins in May. It will include a six-month commitment to meeting with a small group of guys for one hour on Friday mornings before work at the Woodbury campus and a weekly personal study on subjects vital to following Christ wholeheartedly and effectively (the study will take about one hour per week to prepare). Come to an information meeting to learn more about it on Friday April 17, 6:00 - 7:00 a.m. Coffee and donuts will be provided. Let me know if you're coming. You can email me from this site or put it in the Comments.

April 02, 2008

Easter Challenge Stories 6

Another story:

It was an incredibly great time of walking and meditating on Scripture, prayer and singing to the Lord. I felt refreshed, renewed and reconnected. I can’t wait to do it again.

April 01, 2008

Easter Challenge Stories 5

Another Easter Challenge story:

Thanks for putting this challenge out to us. I really haven't done any meaningful scripture memorization for many years. It has been easy to assume that it had gotten too hard to memorize as I got older. I can confirm that yes indeed, it has gotten harder to memorize, but I can also tell you that it has also gotten more meaningful. I memorized the "Growing in Christ-likeness" verses. Thanks again.

Easter Challenge Stories 4

Here's a third Easter Challenge story:

In past years I have given up chocolate for lent, which is a good challenge for my sweet tooth. This year I thought it would be good to take on a goal that would strengthen and encourage me spiritually. I like to think that I have a pretty good foundation of biblical knowledge, and thus it has been difficult to regularly reread the Bible for devotions. Memorizing Scripture was a great way to make Bible study more challenging and interesting again. I found it was more difficult than I predicted it would be. (I actually don’t know everything about God’s Word!) My husband and I practiced the verses before our bedtime prayers. We memorized “The Purpose Driven Life” verses in the NIV translation, and they provided a great basis for making my walk with God a larger part of my everyday life.

March 31, 2008

Easter Challenge Stories 3

Here's another Easter Challenge story:

I went to the Minnesota Landscape Arboretum for a half day of Solitude. I went into this experience looking forward to some time away to spend with God. At first, I was overwhelmed by the peacefulness of the wintry scene. I sat in the indoor conservatory and played, journaled, sang worship songs and listened as God spoke about how ti need to live my daily life with him. I was reminded of the imporance of taking time away and feel so blessed, encouraged and loved.

Billboards and Invites

Interesting stats from Hudson. Since January 1, first-time guests have come based on the following:

  • Website: 1
  • Billboard on I94: 11
  • Invitation: 24

Relevance Conference

Our staff and many ministry leaders will be attending the one-day Relevance Conference at Eagle Brook Church on May 8, 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. at their Lino Lakes campus. Check it out by clicking on Relevance Church Conference. We'd love for you to join us. Let me know if you're interested in joining us at the group rate. Groups have to register together. If so, contact office@fiveoakschurch.org right away. Don't email me or comment because I'm on vacation and won't be checking email for a few days.

Easter Challenge Stories 2

Another Easter Challenge story:

On 2/09/2008 I got away with the Lord at Panera for a few hours. It was wonderful retreat that I had been looking forward to doing. This challenge and the fact that my husband would be traveling the following week, spurred me on to have a half day with the Lord now.

The time was a treasure, such an open space where Jesus really spoke to me. My heart was refreshed through rejoicing, His peace, dwelling in His presence, and experiencing His Holy Spirit’s power as He searched my heart in so many areas (the Beatitudes being a great guide along with all of Ephesians 5 in praying specifically for myself in our marriage). My prayer has been that I would experience the abundance God has for me in my heart--this time of solitude was certainly abundant!

March 28, 2008

Easter Challenge Stories

Over several posts I'll be sharing Easter Challenge stories. A few weeks ago I challenged our congregation to take one of seven Easter challenges (see previous post). On the back of each Easter Challenge card is a space for people to tell their story. Here's the first of many I'll be posting over the next few days:

I followed the New Believer’s Bible Reading Plan. I decided to take the challenge because I’ve never been a big Bible reader. I wanted to have some direction and meaning with reading it.
I liked the plan and felt it made me understand the Bible more, but it also made me realize how much I don’t know. It makes me want to read more, so I’m going to try the guided tour plan next. I think reading the Bible has made my faith deeper and also showed me how I should act as a Christian and deepened my desire to do so.

March 20, 2008

82

I had a fun conversation this last Sunday with a first-time guest. He told me he's one of the 82 percent who just needed an invitation. Told me he came to Five Oaks because someone at work kept asking and he saw  "doUwant2change.com" on the windshield of her car and checked it out. He loved it. Said it was relevant and fun and that he'd be back for Easter. He's not a regular church goer.

March 19, 2008

First Impressions Weekly Update

Comments from the first-time guest cards we send out:

Woodbury

  • [Child's Name] – I liked how they explained our kids lesson. [Child's Name] – I love the clips in church! [Child's Name] – I like all the people. [Child's Name] – I wasn’t quite used to communion but I still like it!
  • I loved the atmosphere and sermon at Five Oaks. I’ve told all my friends and family about your church and we plan on returning this week.
  • Never have I been so warmly welcomed as the Five Oaks Church has made me feel! I look forward to many days ahead as part of your family.

Hudson

  • We really enjoyed it and felt very welcome. We will definitely be back! Thanks.
  • The greeter in a Worship Center, Joan? She was great!! – Coffee couple with the biz in River Falls very friendly! Way to go!

March 18, 2008

Transcendence

"A man will forget that, as a father, he has been welcomed to the transcendent glory of being part of God's work of forming human souls. Instead he will buy into the replacement glory of career success. More and more, his life will be eaten up and defined my his work. Less and less will his sense of purpose have to do with the formative community that only he can offer his children. Sadly, his children cease to be one of the joyful focuses of his living and become an obligation in an already-too-busy schedule. Less and less do his children know him, respect him, trust him, or feel his love." (Paul David Tripp, A Quest for More: Living for something bigger than you)

March 17, 2008

Cubano

One of my favorite things to do on my day off is to go to one of my favorite coffee shops, Swede Hollow, have my quiet time, read the paper, read a book and drink a Cubano.

A Cubano is their version of a Cuban cafe con leche (coffee with milk or a type of latte). It's my second favorite I've ever had. My first is from a little window cafe across the street from where I grew up in Hialeah, Florida. I've taken a few people to have Cubano's and they love them (beware, it's super sweet, sweetened with brown sugar). The foam on top is super thick and this place does everything with style, so expect a small "fern" shape on top of the foam and a piece of dark chocolate on the rim. I'm here right now and the place is buzzing.

The building is an old one, converted into this coffee shop. It was once a small hospital/clinic. There's a guy across form me that is always here when I come and is always with a group of folks talking and laughing (one lady has the most piercing laugh and I might have to put my earphones in to survive). Turns out he's part of an Irish band. He's in a picture on a poster on the wall publicizing a St. Patrick's Day Irish dance tonight.

Swede Hollow is named after the St. Paul neighborhood  where it's located, close to Metropolitan State University in St. Paul on 7th Street (I think). Google it to get directions, and try it out some time. Let me know how you like it.

March 14, 2008

Cluster

One of the most valuable things I do is meet monthly with a couple of other pastors from the area for breakfast. Our district superintendent got us up and running with this years ago. It has been a priority of his to get pastors "clustering" together and it's a great legacy of his ministry that so many are doing it all over the state. The other pastors are from  EFree churches. We encourage and coach each other, share resource ideas, commiserate, laugh together and so much more. I wonder how many other people (not just pastors) would benefit from this kind of relationship with people in their field of work?

March 13, 2008

Goal Obsession

Excellent post by executive coach Marshall Goldsmith on getting obsessed with our goals and forgetting our mission. Here are some highlights.

 ...Goal obsession occurs when we become so focused on achieving our goal (or task) that we forget the larger mission.

Let me give you an example from Wall Street. "Mike" was always complaining because he worked too hard. When I asked him why he worked so hard, he replied, “Why do you think? Do you think that I love this place? I am working so hard because I want to make a lot of money!” I continued my inquiry, “Do you really need this much money?” “I do now,” Mike grimaced. “I just got divorced for the third time. With three alimony checks each month, I am almost broke.” “Why do you keep getting divorced?” I asked. The answer came out with a sad sigh, “My wives kept complaining that I worked all the time. They had no idea how hard it is to make this much money!”

...Almost everyone that I meet feels as busy – or even busier – than they have felt in their entire lives. I see too many older people wrecking their health in pursuit of their next achievement. I see too many younger people who are missing their youth, then postponing their love life, then not having children – all in service of their career. For what?

There is nothing wrong with hard work...with choosing to dedicate your life to your career, if that makes you happy. The problem occurs when the price we pay for achieving goals, is not worth the cost we incur in our lives. Only we can determine calculate the costs and benefits to our own lives.

March 12, 2008

Chikezie

Finished last night's Idol tonight. Chikezie stole the show for me. Wow! Many other stellar performances, but loved what Chikezie did the most. Poor David A. He's still my favorite, but not a good night.

Five Oaks Website Stats

Got this from our Communications Director:

The following are February 2008 Web Site Statistics:

  • 3,167 visits (up from 2,548 visits in January--Note: There are two less days in February)
  • 12,140 pages were visited
  • Averaged 109 visits per day
  • Feb. 1 was the highest traffic day with 156 visits
  • Feb. 20 was the lowest traffic day with 67 visits
  • Mondays and Tuesdays were the busiest days
  • 137 hits from doUwant2change.com
  • 17 visits were linked in from henrywilliams.typepad.com
  • 28 visits from the Netherlands
  • 20 visits from Brazil

March 11, 2008

American Idol

This is the first season Lois and I have watched most of AI. The last two seasons we've watched some of the final rounds, but since tying into my mom's DISH last November (yes, we've been on rabbit ears all of our lives until then) and adding DVR, it makes it easier to record and watch. I think no "24" yet this year probably added to our search for "our show" for the winter. Anyway, I was relieved with the choices for the final 12 and we both think the guys are much stronger than the ladies. Last Sunday we almost went into overdose because we hadn't watched two weeks worth because of a trip to CA. That's where the DVR comes in extra handy.

March 10, 2008

QT

We launched a new seminar yesterday at the Woodbury campus that we will offer several times a year called QT. QT is a seminar experience that equips people to connect with God through prayer and hearing from God through Scripture. We didn't have any rooms available for both hours, so we held the seminar in the Commons area. It actually worked well enough that I'm tempted to offer more seminars there in the future.

The seminar is designed for new believers and those looking to freshen up their devotional life. It puts spiritual disciplines in a relational context and uses the Bible Reading Plans as a hands-on tool. If that describes you, keep your eyes open for the next offering.

Cohabitation

The following are some highlights from a Christianity Today report.

In a 2007 edition of the New Oxford Review, Dr. A. Patrick Schneider II, who holds boards in family and geriatric medicine and runs a private practice in Lexington, Kentucky, did a statistical analysis of cohabitation in America, based on the findings of a number of academic resources. Here are five conclusions Schneider draws from his studies:

  1. Relationships are unstable in cohabitation....one in ten survives five or more years.
  2. Cohabiting women often end up with the responsibilities of marriage—particularly when it comes to caring for children—without the legal protection.
  3. Cohabitation brings a greater risk of sexually transmitted diseases, because cohabiting men are four times more likely to be unfaithful than husbands.
  4. Those who suffer most from cohabitation are the children.

March 06, 2008

First Impressions Weekly Update

The latest comments from first-time attenders:

Woodbury

  • I am a big fan of the podcasts. They played a huge role in my discovery of 5 Oaks.
  • I will be coming again and plan to bring my 14 yr. old son – Julian.

Hudson

  • Liked the music but was too loud. Couldn’t hear the singer. Felt like we were at a bad rock concert. Music was static. It looked like they were having a great time, but hard to sit through that part again. The sermon was great. Not sure we will be back. Still looking. My kids loved it though.
  • I presently call Eagle Brook Church my home and am an active member there. However, I may be looking for a community church to raise children in someday…Thanks for making me feel so welcome. I enjoyed your church so much. God Bless!

March 01, 2008

First Impressions Quarterly Report - Hudson

Take a look at the previous post for an explanation of the numbers. I don't have Hudson numbers from last quarter, but here are the numbers since December:

  • I felt welcome when I visited Five Oaks Church (on a 5-point scale, 5 = agree strongly): 4.77
  • I felt that my child(ren) was/were well taken care of during our visit: 4.58
  • How likely is it that you would recommend Five Oaks to a friend or colleague? (on a scale of 0=not likely at all, 5=Neutral, 10=Extremely Likely) - 8.51

Wow!